I’m super close to finished with my Lavender Zig-Zag sweater, but I’ve got to put it up for a little bit. I’ve got myself a lousy case of tennis elbow in my right arm and I’ve got to avoid overdoing it for a couple of weeks while I heal back up.
Zig-Zag Lace, lurking
Things I’m not currently supposed to do:
Crochet
Knit
Bike
Grip anything larger around than the circle made by touching my index finger to my thumb.
Grip anything smaller than the circle made by touching my index finger to my thumb.
Lift anything with my palm facing down.
I’m getting laser treatments, which seem to be helping, but I’ve still got at least two weeks before I’m supposed to return to full normal activity with my right arm.
Remember that time you enthusiastically waved at your friend but soon realized that they were a complete stranger? What about the time when that incy-wincy pebble tripped you in front of all of your classmates? For some of us, it feels like these awkward moments come looking for us.
My mom shrieks like a child when she’s startled. Some time back, when cellphones weren’t really common, I caught a glimpse of her unexpectedly at Walmart. Today, I’d just text her and tell her I was in Walmart, too. I was in my 20s, though, and figured I’d sneak up on her hug her for the giggle of her shrieking about it.
Now, I should have had some pause about this and not just because giving your mom a heart attack for the Lulz is kind of rude. For years, my mom has had close friends come up to her and give her crap for not saying hi when they saw her out and about. It always happened when Mom hadn’t been anywhere near where the alleged incident happened and she had an alibi to prove it.
Mom called this mystery doppelganger her evil twin and chalked it up to people not really paying attention when they were out and about. I really didn’t think about it much, other than when people were telling Mom they’d seen her twin again.
I should have been thinking about that.
Just as I was about to pounce, the person in front of me turned just enough that I could see that it wasn’t actually my mom. It was Mom’s doppleganger and I almost bear-hugged them in the middle of Walmart. ?
Happy Awkward Moments Day! May your day be blissfully free of new awkward happenings.
It’s St. Patrick’s day and my family has Irish heritage. Since I’m probably not going to get out to celebrate the wearin’ of the green since it’s the middle of the week, the least I can do is some eating of the green.
“Eat more vegetables” goal is high on my list. It’s not always easy. I work full-time at my day job and I’m always trying to carve out more time to write, so I do things to make it easier on myself.
Bok choi makes a great substitute for a head of cabbage in colcannon. Just sayin’
Cook at home.
It’s easier to add more vegetables to your meals when you’re in control of every aspect of meal production.
Plan your meals before you go to the grocery store.
The circulars with the specials in them come out on Wednesdays in my area, so I make sure to sit down and do my meal planning on Wednesday or Thursday evening, before heading out to the grocery store. I look for any veggies on sale and try to plan meals around them.
We also have the good fortune to have an Aldi nearby, so we shop there. The produce is generally good and it’s well priced.
Clean and chop any vegetables that you’re going to need for recipes for the week ahead.
I try to do this on Sunday. Sometimes the weekend gets away from me and I end up doing it Monday night as part of Monday night’s meal preparation.
It’s harder to make an excuse to not use veggies when they’re already cut up and ready to use.
These colors make me happy.
Don’t have time to prep veggies? Check out the frozen veg.
There are all kinds of frozen vegetables on the market. The store brands are very often the same quality as the name brand products, or even better. Throw them in a soup or just warm them up for a quick side dish.
Snack on vegetables
Mamá kept carrot sticks in the fridge for snacks. I’ve started doing the same thing myself.
I am not fashionable. I read fashion blogs and my Instagram feed is full of fashionistas.
When I was young, I’d pour over the pages of magazines: Cosmo, Elle, Seventeen, Vogue – anything I could beg or borrow. Back then, I thought if I did I could crack the code I could learn to look like, well, a normal person, and then maybe I could camouflage all the awkward mannerisms and hide the embarrassing things that I liked (like aliens and monsters) that apparently made me too much of a dweeb to have friends.
It didn’t though.
I never had the grace or beauty that goes with models or the effortless sense of style that some people come by naturally. Some people just seem to know how to put an outfit together or what to do with their hair and make-up.
I like what I like and I used to believe that what I like made me all wrong because it didn’t fit the mold.
Handmade, upcycled, or generally unique pieces speak to me. So do black, very dark shades of gray, and dusty earthy tones. Dressing’s about expressing yourself. It’s art that you wear, whether it’s just your favorite kicks and a tracksuit or the latest designer original.
When I was a kid, I wanted to emulate those around me to fit in, but when you get right down to it both frilly dresses and strict business formal both feel the same way to me: Like I’m cosplaying someone else.
If I’m being honest, full Goth attire feels that way to me, too. I’m a bit more Chilling Adventures of Sabrina Auntie-core and quite a lot less Lydia Deets straight out goth, at least as I’ve gotten older.
Simple, practical clothes are most comfortable for me. Give me jeans and a tee-shirt, and maybe a sweater if it’s cold, and I’m happy, as long as it can go with me from the convention hall, down to the river, on the bike, or out to my garden. I’m pretty much the little artsy geek girl next door, and I’m good with myself just the way I am.
There’s something that keeps me trying to keep at least a veneer of “normal” on my clothes, mostly because it’s easier to dress and go if I mostly don’t have to think about whether or not a shirt is appropriate to where I’m going. Pay no attention to the skull necklace and spiked earrings I’m wearing; Look at the french blue polo and the nice black cardigan.
Still, sometimes it’s nice when what I like also turns out to be stylish. I’ve been positively giddy about the current trend for crocheted things, and that lavender has come back on-trend.
I can work with that.
Lavender? Yes. Crochet lace? Yes! Practical for summer? Well, I guess we’ll find out.
